I think this is your main problem 
Just under a year ago you posted, worrying that you were not making fast enough progress. The community consensus was that you seemed to be doing fine.
Now, although you
… you resent spending so much time practicing.
That’s fine! 
It’s a very simple equation. The more time you spend practicing (and I include playing songs in that), the better you will become. Do it if it makes you happy (taking the long term into account of course)
You’re only 31, for goodness sake.
You could put the guitar under the bed and take it out again after a couple of decades, and still be way ahead of many of us here. Read through the old dogs thread to see what the future holds in that scenario. It’ll still be good fun and worthwhile
I’d ask Justin-approved teacher @LievenDV for a one-time lesson to discuss your goals and how best to achieve them.