Hello, it's Dominique, Berlin, Germany

Dear guitar fellows,

I am an older learner, got a used classical guitar for christmas 2019, and started to learn roughly a month later, after my nephew ( who had also offered me the guitar), gave me a few starter lessons. I was 52 years old already.

Rewind something like 25 years from then, I had tried to start the guitar (my father had one lying around) but I rather quickly put it aside!
Too many strings - my fingers wouln’t stretch to do some basic chords and it felt like they never would be able to!

Also had learned to play the piano self taught for a year or so, it went ok, but meanwhile, I got more and more into the DAW world and prefered to record simple tracks, rather using my right hand recording a pattern, then some new track on top of it, drums, bass, and so on, but was too lazy to continue learning! Stupid me!

Forward 20 years or so, I had a little son and we - my wife and me - thought about how to let him get into the world of music and instruments. I always had a weak spot for the guitar - because it has the amazing capacity of reproducing very low and also high notes, can be pretty loud, so great players can reproduce quite complex music with it, but contrary to the piano - while still being portable! I can’t stress that enough - what a great instrument this is!

Back to my son - so I thought about the guitar and read someone’s advice in some forum that the Ukulele would be an easy introduction into the world of guitar, also size-wise great for kids. Something like a first step - Level one…
I bought one , (and then more, but that’s another story). So I bought it for the family and started to learn. My belief was that my son would pick it up every now and then and be incepted to while seeing me practicing.
My son had some interest, but it was limited, unfortunately. I got him to strum a few chords with the years, at least, but that was it. (At least, he now takes, drumming lessons)

I had learned a few Beatles songs and still love the Ukulele today.
Then, after my nephew gave me the first guitar lesson, even if those six strings were still a bit intimidating, it was all much easier than 25 years before and I was confident that I could improve rather quickly from here! The Uke was a great preparation to take the hurdle!

Well, my journey -
So I searched for guitar lessons in the internet, song lessons, finger workouts and more and got on quite well for a year or so.
After one year approximately, I found that Justin, whom I knew from Song lessons at Youtube had got a whole, well structured guitar course - and for free - wow!

I wasn’t at Zero, of course, but I was sure I would miss any - pobssibly important - bits if I had not started back at the very first lesson.

After one more year, I found finger picking more and more intriguing and was more often away than here, but still slowly continued the course.
Since then, I advance slowly in the course, but I also really want to understand and engage with every thing Justin teaches. So I sometimes search for concrete stuff and jump forward and try more advanced lessons or songs and see if I can manage them, but come back afterwards, because I don’t want to leave out any important stuff.

In all the time, I greatly appreciated Justin’s view on learning, guitar playing, and many more things…While many people try and struggle to add something meaningful to the world - me, certainly I do struggle to! - Justin clearly has made the world a little better! Thank you!

Hopefully see you all around here for a long time to come,
Dominique from Berlin, Germany

PS. Sorry for the length!

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Hi Dominique and welcome to the community! :smiley:

That’s quite a nice back story being common to lots of folks around here having an on-off-relationship with guitars. :wink:

Sometimes it takes the long way until we finally find our path to follow. Great you seem to finally be on track with the guitar journey - enjoy the ride and don’t be afraid of side tracks every now and then. They are part of the journey as well. :slight_smile:

Nice your son is learning drums. So maybe the two of you can have some jams together in the future?

Cheers from another German - Lisa

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Hi Dominique,
Welcome here and I wish you a lot of fun :sunglasses:

Now that you have ended up at Justinguitar, there is no longer any excuse not to succeed with the guitar :smiley: :smile:

Greetings from your neighbour ,Rogier

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Welcome to the forum Dominique

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Hi Dominique, warmest greetings from Warsaw, Poland.
Thank you for the story; it’s so nice and even touching that you felt like sharing it with us. I hope - oh, no! I’m sure - you’ll have some truly great time here. The community is fantastic! :slight_smile:

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Servus, Domi, we already met over at the ‘Wormhole’ :smiley:
I noticed you expressed interest for the Open Mics- There is no standard required:Everybody just plays at whatever level they are at- from newbies to Justin level.
You should think of making a recording of yourself playing and share it, as it’s a good preparation for performing (as well as a requirement).
Alles gute! :sunglasses:

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Hello Dominique nice to read your post, I just know you will enjoy yourself here so no doubt I’ll see you around the community once in a while cheers HEC. ooo and I love Germany many a wonderful time over there.

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Hello Dominique, welcome to the community forum.

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Hello Dominique & Welcome!

From reading your backstory, I see that you seem to be on a good track for learning & progressing with guitar!
I think it is good to jump ahead now & then as long as you go back to where you jumped from & start again from there!
My advice to learners at your spot in the learning process is to make sure to keep it FUN!!! If a lesson is making playing your guitar feel like work, you can lose your inspiration to play. On the other hand, if you’re always “PLAYING” instead of “WORKING” the guitar, it’s lots of fun & laughter! :smiling_face:
Good luck with your Journey!!!

Tod from New Mexico USA

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Hi Dominique, and welcome! Thank you for sharing your story. It’s great that you have both the curiosity to seek out specific skills you’re interested in learning, and the discipline to return to the basics. I expect you’re improving quite well! Hope to hear more from you as you add to your guitar story.

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Welcome to the forum Dominique.

Good to see your interesting the guitar never quite disappeared and has been rekindled !
You are certainly in the best place to learn and make progress. Just enjoy the ride.

:sunglasses:

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Welcome to the community Dominique! I’m glad that you found your way to back to the guitar and to the forum.

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Great to hear you are making progress. I started playing when I was 53 and learning to play the guitar has be a wonderful experience with such great rewards. Apparently I was conceived in Germany although I have no memory of that life changing experience. Look forward to hearing more from you.

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Hi Dominique,

Welcome to the community forum. :grinning:

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Thank you, everyone for the warm welcome!

I am sorry to reply late! I wanted to look at who says hello and then got lost in forum threads and links and lots of videos - what an awesome crowd is assembled here in the forum!

Thank you very much, Lisa! I’ve seen you in an open mic and several of your videos - “Zitronenfalter” is very very very nice!
And above all I wish you all the best in the next days - my son also came in october, something like 8 days late.

Thank you, Rogier! You’re putting quite a bit of pressure on me! I’ll have to post success stories some time soon then! :grinning:

Thank you, Rick!
I’ve seen that you’ve played the guitar for quite a bit, but unfortunately couldn’t find any video! All the best and certainly see you around!

Thank you, Tomasz!
That was some nice music you posted lately, thank you!

Hello Brian,
Thank you for the encouragement! It’s strange, but I feel a little aquainted to you already, only because you had hosted the last Open Mic and I had seen a few more performances before. I lately tried to record myself, but I was never happy. There’s always some mistake in my playing. And I still have some touble singing and playing at the same time. At least I got a recording that I was happy with yesterday. Not flawless, but no bigger mistake, at least.

Oh, the post will be too big, I’ll continue in a next post…

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Thank you, Hec! I’ve just found your entry post, also!
All the best - and talk to you rather sooner than later :slight_smile:

Thank you, Steve!
I enjoyed a lot to scroll around in your learning log and see your progress!
Nice voice and some great covers!

Great advice, Tod! And that has always been my motto. I certainly could have advanced faster, but I could have had bad times already if I hadn’t kept it fun!
Hopefully see you soon somewhere around here :slight_smile:
PS. Do you know the song Calico skies? I like it.

Thank you, Judi! Of course, at times, I wish I could progress faster, find a shortcut or so… but I definitely don’t want to complain - it’s on me to make my goals come true…
I read your “learner with smaller hands” and smaller guitar search threads and I would gladly borrow you my two smaller acoustics to try if you lived nearby, but you don’t :frowning: Oh yes, smaller ones can still have some surpriusingly nice bass… it depends on the model.

again, the post seems to get too long, so I’ll split it…

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Thank you, Toby!
I’ve read quite a few of your posts and seen you on video and while you say it took you long to play and sing at the same time, you made it! That gives me hope. I can, but it only works for me when both the singing and the playing is practically automatic, so rather on simpler songs. And then I feel like I should do better by now :slight_smile: But then again I know everyone is at their own pace and I should just continue and enjoy the ride, like you say!

Thank you, Mark!
I always enjoy seeing your and your wife’s performances and also your guitar build videos! Thank you! I’ll build myself an electric some day soon.

Thank you, Tony!
Australia, that’s not quite around the corner! I could read only a part of your interesting learning log yet, but I’ll continue. And those Pub Choir events look like fun, sometimes I wish myself away from the big city…

Thank you, Rudi!
Just read your introduction, also.
The first song by heart… Probably “Leaving on a jet plane” on the Ukulele
On the guitar, some time later, I think it was “Baby, can I hold you tonight”, but well, I still have to bring the whole guitar playing and singing together and record it. It’s my problem to always jump on the next train and learn something different before things can get boring (and before I master them truly!)

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Hi Domi!

I didn’t know of McCartney’s “Calico Skies” before, but just listened to it & I liked it! :grin:
Thank you!!! It looks a bit challenging to play at my current level but I’m going to add it to my (too long I’m afraid) list of songs to learn!! Not sure if Justin has a lesson or not… I’m going to have to check!!!
Good luck with what you’re learning now!!!

Tod

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Hello Dominique.
Welcome to JustinGuitar and this fantastic community. Please take your time to look around and get to know the wider space.
https://community.justinguitar.com/categories

We are a supportive and encouraging group of students and guitarists from across the world. Essentially, we are all here for music and to improve as players. We truly are a ‘community’. Members help and support one another and a friendly, positive attitude underpins this. We hope that all - young or old, experienced or new players - adopt and foster the pay-it-forward ethos that Justin personifies and embedded all those years ago when he started the website and forum.

Also, please make sure to read the community etiquette announcement for some important information and guidance.

Richard
:grinning:

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