Thatās some sound advice. I have had that problem; getting sick of a song or bored with it. I recently counted 65 songs I have performed in the past 18 months, but then asked myself which of those did I really know well.
Hi Shane,
That idea is definitely spot on. I stopped printing fancy chord sheets about a year ago and hand write everything. It definitely helped me learn songs quicker.
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Thatās a good idea. I mostly play songs Iām fairly familiar with.
I took this idea today and wrote out chord progressions separately to memorize for verse, pre-chorus and chorus. Maybe separating them would work better.
I actually did this on Saturday night at the beach to muddle my way through song number 4. It only took a couple tries before I got it right. Maybe doing that more often will help without using the book as a crutch.
Some fantastic advice in the archives from a similar thread that recommends building up our knowledge of songs in ever increasing layers - Tip: Memorizing songs (building layers)
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Hi Michael,
Thanks for sharing your progress. I decided to put pressure on myself because more frequently I have been in situations where people are watching me perform. Nobody complains but in my mind are they wondering why this guy needs his notes for everything. Lol
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Hi Lieven,
Thanks for the tips. I remember you posted something a year or so ago about tackling a song and breaking it into smaller parts to master one by one. I typically do not try to sound like the original artist and try to make a song work for my skill level. For example replace a solo with a couple runs through the chord progression. That helps make the song appealing. Iāll have to check out your live lesson you added the link for if I can make it .
Today watched this video and thanks for the link. I think I saw it before a long while ago but had good information. Thatās funny I forgot the video about memory skills rightš¤£
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I like that point you added about you are never done with a song after you learn it. Iām starting to go back and play songs I havenāt touched in months as a refresher. Even professional tenured musicians admit ,āI havenāt played that one in 30 years so here goes nothing ā. Oh ish I shouldāve practiced. 40 songs in your portfolio that are regularly played is impressive.
Yes, I agree with his idea to break it down. That is good advice for learning anything that is somewhat complex, music or otherwise. I havenāt tried the app. It looks like it would be cool to use. I try for originality when playing a cover song, so itās recognizable yet unique. Does that app work for something like that?
yes, this one
yeah, don"t make that too long though, it doesnāt have to be as long as the original if it is a longer solo.
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Thanks for the tip. Most songs I learned were a result of looking at chord sheets and sometimes watching someoneās cover as a sample to get a feel for a possible rhythm and melody.
Thanks. Iāll check this post out again.
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My daughter read some of this and also gave me her advice that pretty much fits what everyone here has been saying. She said you have to make a mental picture of the word with the chord above it. She says she spends time strumming using hand motions while at school and not having a guitar handy. Then when we do practice together she already has the hand motions down and mental picture of the words and chord progression. She goes to a special school for music, art, and theater and is quite an accomplished artist. Really sound advice from an eleven year old. I am still amazed she can play in time and sing after just a few weeks.
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Iāve struggled with memorising too. For me lyrics are easy, chords are hard to remember.
I totally get how you feel, going from playing in front of a chord sheet to playing entirely from memory is a heavy lift, especially the first few times you do it. Some things that have really helped me:
- Write down the chord sequence in blocks of 4 bars. Lots of songs have 4-bar or 8-bar chord loops, and once you identify those patterns itās much easier to remember. E.g., Glycerine by Bush is just G - D - Em - C (Axis progression) repeating almost all the way through, with only two little variations. Thatās a lot less to remember than an entire song. A lot of songs have one loop for the chorus and another loop for the verses. Not all songs fit neatly into a 4 bar grid (Iām looking at you, House of the Rising Sun) but heaps do.
- When you practice the song, start to purposefully look away from the screen/book a little bit at a time. Close your eyes or physically turn away so itās not in your sight line. At first youāll lose your place often and have to look back, but the more you do it, the easier it gets. Each time you have to look, youāre reinforcing your memory of a chord change, like āoh yeah, thatās right, in that part it goes from C to Dā. Eventually you wonāt have to look at all. If you stare at the book while you play every time, you are training your brain to need the book in front of your eyes in order to produce the music, which is not where we want to be. Itās a hard habit to break but you can do it gradually.
- Try not to compare yourself to other people and especially not to kids!
Those kids have full on neuroplasticity on their side, itās not fair but thatās life.
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Hi
I have same issue. If the chords are not in front of me then Iām guitar blind. I recently wrote a song and canāt even remember the words to my own song but I can remember all the chords. My husband plays guitar but always says Iām more advanced than him however every day at some point he is able to just pick guitar up and plays something just off top of his head. Why canāt I do it 
Hey Iris - welcome to the community! We share a similar experience as I also play with my partner who can pick the guitar up and play away. When we jam together I can come up with ideas for melody but then forget them the next day. Iāve started recording little āsketch notesā of bits to explore more and develop. The prompt of hearing things often then kicks me off in the right direction again. Is your song at a point of being able to share? Iād love to hear it. (Btw - do say hello over in the introduction section - youāll be sure to get a warm hello from folks!)
When I started playing I could so repeat your whole story. I was tied to my music sheets and thought it was just way too hard to memorize a song.
I often jammed at our music club, one day we had to play outside and it was quite windy, the song sheets I used kept getting blown away. Another club member commented that I always seem to play the same 3 or so songs so she just casually said why donāt you memorize just them.
So I did. And it wasnāt as hard as I thought it would be. Definitely a case of mind over matter. If you are convinced itās too hard, it will be.
Since then Iāve memorized every song I learn and now I can play for 2 hours or so easily completely from memory including some songs that are quite hard musically, fancier finger style or quite syncopated lyrics, that sort of thing.
Itās a huge advantage being able to play from memory.
When I learn a new song, usually I memorize it fairly quickly now, but on the more challenging ones I take the song sheet with me on my daily walks (30 mins or so) and during my walk I sing the first phrase of the first verse. And continue to do that till I can do it without looking at the sheet, doesnāt take that long, to give you an example if would be āHow many roads must a man walk downā from Blowin in the wind.
Then I try to sing the second phrase (ābefore you call him a manā) usually that requires looking at the song sheet once or twice. Then I combine the first and second and so on until the whole song is memorized.
With songs that Iāve memorized and not played in months I sometimes have to go back to the song sheet for once or twice through the song to lock it back into my memory.
I strongly encourage everyone to memorize what you play. Itās so nice to just grab an instrument and go. and it also makes what you play more flowing, far less staccato. Itās really not as hard as you think it is, reminds me of a fav saying
Imagine what you could do if you knew you couldnāt fail
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+1 on this. Get your two chord (example: Dreams and the link below) and three chord progressions (I-IV-V) under your fingers and you have the basis for too many songs to list here. Playing medleys with these accessible songs/progressions is a good way to go as well.
I suggest these easier songs because I donāt think maintaining a repertoire is a good approach to learning the instrument. Better to spend practice time playing what you donāt know rather than what you already know. It all depends on how much time you have in the day for guitar playing/practice.