Hi Michael,
Thanks for sharing your progress. I decided to put pressure on myself because more frequently I have been in situations where people are watching me perform. Nobody complains but in my mind are they wondering why this guy needs his notes for everything. Lol
Hi Lieven,
Thanks for the tips. I remember you posted something a year or so ago about tackling a song and breaking it into smaller parts to master one by one. I typically do not try to sound like the original artist and try to make a song work for my skill level. For example replace a solo with a couple runs through the chord progression. That helps make the song appealing. Iāll have to check out your live lesson you added the link for if I can make it .
Today watched this video and thanks for the link. I think I saw it before a long while ago but had good information. Thatās funny I forgot the video about memory skills rightš¤£
I like that point you added about you are never done with a song after you learn it. Iām starting to go back and play songs I havenāt touched in months as a refresher. Even professional tenured musicians admit ,āI havenāt played that one in 30 years so here goes nothing ā. Oh ish I shouldāve practiced. 40 songs in your portfolio that are regularly played is impressive.
Yes, I agree with his idea to break it down. That is good advice for learning anything that is somewhat complex, music or otherwise. I havenāt tried the app. It looks like it would be cool to use. I try for originality when playing a cover song, so itās recognizable yet unique. Does that app work for something like that?
yes, this one
yeah, don"t make that too long though, it doesnāt have to be as long as the original if it is a longer solo.
Thanks for the tip. Most songs I learned were a result of looking at chord sheets and sometimes watching someoneās cover as a sample to get a feel for a possible rhythm and melody.
Thanks. Iāll check this post out again.
My daughter read some of this and also gave me her advice that pretty much fits what everyone here has been saying. She said you have to make a mental picture of the word with the chord above it. She says she spends time strumming using hand motions while at school and not having a guitar handy. Then when we do practice together she already has the hand motions down and mental picture of the words and chord progression. She goes to a special school for music, art, and theater and is quite an accomplished artist. Really sound advice from an eleven year old. I am still amazed she can play in time and sing after just a few weeks.
Iāve struggled with memorising too. For me lyrics are easy, chords are hard to remember.
I totally get how you feel, going from playing in front of a chord sheet to playing entirely from memory is a heavy lift, especially the first few times you do it. Some things that have really helped me:
Those kids have full on neuroplasticity on their side, itās not fair but thatās life.Hi
I have same issue. If the chords are not in front of me then Iām guitar blind. I recently wrote a song and canāt even remember the words to my own song but I can remember all the chords. My husband plays guitar but always says Iām more advanced than him however every day at some point he is able to just pick guitar up and plays something just off top of his head. Why canāt I do it 
Hey Iris - welcome to the community! We share a similar experience as I also play with my partner who can pick the guitar up and play away. When we jam together I can come up with ideas for melody but then forget them the next day. Iāve started recording little āsketch notesā of bits to explore more and develop. The prompt of hearing things often then kicks me off in the right direction again. Is your song at a point of being able to share? Iād love to hear it. (Btw - do say hello over in the introduction section - youāll be sure to get a warm hello from folks!)
When I started playing I could so repeat your whole story. I was tied to my music sheets and thought it was just way too hard to memorize a song.
I often jammed at our music club, one day we had to play outside and it was quite windy, the song sheets I used kept getting blown away. Another club member commented that I always seem to play the same 3 or so songs so she just casually said why donāt you memorize just them.
So I did. And it wasnāt as hard as I thought it would be. Definitely a case of mind over matter. If you are convinced itās too hard, it will be.
Since then Iāve memorized every song I learn and now I can play for 2 hours or so easily completely from memory including some songs that are quite hard musically, fancier finger style or quite syncopated lyrics, that sort of thing.
Itās a huge advantage being able to play from memory.
When I learn a new song, usually I memorize it fairly quickly now, but on the more challenging ones I take the song sheet with me on my daily walks (30 mins or so) and during my walk I sing the first phrase of the first verse. And continue to do that till I can do it without looking at the sheet, doesnāt take that long, to give you an example if would be āHow many roads must a man walk downā from Blowin in the wind.
Then I try to sing the second phrase (ābefore you call him a manā) usually that requires looking at the song sheet once or twice. Then I combine the first and second and so on until the whole song is memorized.
With songs that Iāve memorized and not played in months I sometimes have to go back to the song sheet for once or twice through the song to lock it back into my memory.
I strongly encourage everyone to memorize what you play. Itās so nice to just grab an instrument and go. and it also makes what you play more flowing, far less staccato. Itās really not as hard as you think it is, reminds me of a fav saying
Imagine what you could do if you knew you couldnāt fail
+1 on this. Get your two chord (example: Dreams and the link below) and three chord progressions (I-IV-V) under your fingers and you have the basis for too many songs to list here. Playing medleys with these accessible songs/progressions is a good way to go as well.
I suggest these easier songs because I donāt think maintaining a repertoire is a good approach to learning the instrument. Better to spend practice time playing what you donāt know rather than what you already know. It all depends on how much time you have in the day for guitar playing/practice.
Hi Tony,
What you said was exactly what I was trying to get at when I started this thread. Itās not awful to have a song book just in case, but I should be able to play a set (8-10 songs) from memory. Many times when I played for people it is outdoors (with wind) and after hours with low lighting. I felt more professional playing from memory and adding a few jokes or telling a story as I am playing like adding my own funny lyrics here and there. The audience appreciates it. I like the last quote, imagine if you knew you couldnāt fail. Iāll hold onto that one whenever I start to stress about memorizing. Today itās just 4 I can do from memory. Maybe next week it will be 5 then who knows what I can do when failure is not a thing. Thanks again.
Funny when I read @LievenDV ās post I commented that I couldnāt barely play in time let alone a song. That was April 2022. Funny to look back at the progress since then. That article is even more useful now. Thanks again.
I had an epiphany last week about why I was struggling to learn the lyrics to songs.
It was because I never practiced it.
I would just play the song with the songbook, or UG Tabs scrolling on my screen and just assumed that over time I would learn the lyrics. Itās been months and that hasnāt been the case. So once I had my epiphany I scheduled 5 minutes of every practice session just to focus on lyrics. No guitar, no music, just focusing on memorizing lyrics.
Unsurprisingly I have learned the lyrics to 2 songs this week and partial on another 2. I donāt know why it didnāt occur to me earlier.
One of the tools Iāve stated using is AnkiPro which does spaced practice. I created flash cards that had the lyrics either the line before or after the lyrics I was trying to learn. This was very successful.
Thatās a great start! Start out as you mean to continue
Once you get into it, and set your mind to it, itās amazing how much easier it is than you thought it would be. Well done!
Hello, I finally wrote the song and worked out chords for it and finally played it to my husband and he cried. It was based on the story of how we got together and things we have gone through so it has a lot of meaning. I can remember the chords but not the lyrics itās so embarrassing. I would like to share it but just not yet Iām far too shy. I would also love to do an open mic night but agsin how could I if I cant remember any songs off top of my had plus shyness.
I sing on smule most days and Iām Confident singing but doing both argggggg itās tricky. Thanks for replying to me sorry itās been a while.