An update that may help others

Some of you may remember many of my earlier posts, which I consider my search for the path I wanted to walk on when it came to both learning and playing the guitar.

This update may help other discover their own path and passion.

Years ago I wanted to play electric guitar. I saved up, bought a good Fender Strat and explored without any clear direction. I learned some basic scales, played a jam track from you tube, plugged my guitar into the amp and “played.”

In many ways I sounded fine. Who wouldn’t with a backing band?. The truth was I was simply driving down the highway with no sense of direction – which meant timing, rhythm or music.

Somehow I stumbled on Justin’s site. This is when he was selling instructional DVDs and paperback songbooks. I bought everything and plunged back in, this time getting a little better because of Justin’s great methods.

I memorized the major scale patterns, the pentatonic scales and my youtube jamming got so much better.

But have someone tell me to play a song, and I was lost.

First, I had never sung before.

I dragged out my old acoustic guitar and stared playing that, the Strat back in the case. I followed along with Justin’s songbook, but still was lost.

Then I came across a Justin statement that changed my musical life – learn only what you need to learn for you.

Crazy chords for jazz?

Not for me.

Obscure scales – melodic minor?

Not for me.

What did I want?

I decided I wanted to play and sing cover songs.

I sold the electric, saved up and bought a Gibson J-45

I ordered Justin’s strumming course and his metronome app.

Reality hit me in the face.

I had no sense of time, was relying on one strum, and had no idea how that worked within the confines of any song. I made myself use that metronome 30 minutes a day. It was awful. But then I slowly improved. I started tapping my foot, which I had never done.

In time – and I’m talking a long time here – I stopped thinking of patterns and just allowed my right hand to do what felt right – Justin preaching just keep that hand moving. I could play 16th not strums and switch up with 8th note strums, play partial strums.

I enjoyed learning, stumbling and trying again.

Because I had a goal.

It was then that I realized the timing and a sense of rhythm was the secret.

The youtube teachers are always refering to DU, DD U. Or something like that.

I made no sense, kind of like saying “love” means this, when the word changes on who you are talking to.

I had to stop thinking of DU and DU.

Where is the 1?

Where is the e and uh in context of the beat?

How to use different strums within four bars.

Timing and a sense of rhythm allowed me to be in the “musical moment,” what I felt in my heart for the song and trusting the right hand would do it.

Then came the concept of singing. I had to figure out melody, using Justin’s suggestions to play the melody. Great help. Then figure out what key worked best for my voice. Much trial and error. I realized the power of a capo.

I practiced daily, gaining more confidence in my voice – I didn’t hear neighbor dogs howling – and people able to look out the window and cars and still be able to sing and play at the same time.

A month ago I picked out three songs and went to an open mic.

All acoustic players.

All good.

I figured I had nothing to lose.

The place had a great sound man and he plugged my Gibson and had me test the microphone for my voice. I had never used either. Very strange.

But here is the thing.

I was not nervous. I had played and sung those three songs in my bedroom 1,000 times in my bedroom.

I did not “screw up.”

Was able to look the audience in the eye and not focus on the fretboard.

Was I great?

Who knows.

But the other guitarists were so supportive.

So here is my update.

I now have 20 cover songs – chords and lyrics – memorized.

I feel the lyrics, understand the chord progressions – all these are open chords in C, E and G. I use a capo. I use dynamics, partial chords, a hammer on when it feels right.

I don’t think.

I just play.

I plan to go back to the open mic next month.

I will never be in ever band.

I will never play blues, jazz or rock .

But hand me an acoustic guitar in a living room and I could play and sing 20 songs

It is still not easy.

I practice some of these songs every day. From time to time I forget the exact word in a lyric, but at 71, that’s to be expected. But I never stop playing and no one but me would know I made a mistake. When the song is over, I go back, play it again correctly.

Had I never found Justin’s site – all his books and DVDs and products – along with this supportive community I would doing this:

Mindlessly noodling on that Strat to a jam track.

So, thank you Justin and to all of you.

Tom

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What a great story about your guitar journey Tom. Really nice to hear you are enjoying playing and singing songs.

I have struggled with where I should be going I my guitar journey at 68 years old. I am electric primarily but also enjoy acoustic, have just joined a band formed by older people, they mainly play pop/roc, is it for me I am not sure, if not I will find out what is best for me like you.

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Tom, your story is so inspiring for me! Thank you for this. Like you, I just want to be able to play covers of songs for friend, family and myself AND for people be able to recognize the song without my having to sing it.
I am also a senior (nearly 69) and have been struggling with my guitars since 2019. You give me hope that I will sound pretty decent as long as I continue to practice.
Again, thank you for your story. :grinning_face:

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That’s freaking awesome. Congratulations.

I often comment to beginners here that the reward of being able to pull a song out of your back pocket at will is just fantastic and very much in reach if you just hang in there for the first few months.

It sounds to me like you took the long road to get there. Like you, I found such joy in learning to play and sing my first song.

Look forward to hearing more from you.

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I like your advice. I was following the same path as you and had about 6 songs to the stage where I could play and sing them ok and then started working more on timing and dynamics. Then I got a wrist injury that has thrown me right back. I’m hoping as I slowly recover to rebuild my repertoire. Nice story and very encouraging. However the wrist injury has forced me to start learning fingerstyle so I hope to have some fingerstyle in my future repertoire as well.

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Inspiring story, thanks for sharing this Tom!

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Thanks for your story Tom, I hope many will take the time to read it as it’s very inspiring indeed!

So true, and I can relate so much…from that bulb moment on I just could make sense of so many things! Tapping the foot (or activate another source to keep time in the body) is so important, especially if it’s just you and your guitar…might not be required in a band probably, as the drums provide a very clear beat and as far as I can see most guitarists in bands don’t do it (we often go out to local live music concerts and I observe!). I couldn’t do much without tapping my foot, but I also want to learn to rely on my internal timing as well.

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Hi Tom!

Thank you for sharing your inspirational story! I know that for the first 20 years or so, my guitar Journey had no “North Star” to navigate by… Justin’s learning method has me moving in a much more defined path with some specific goals along the way!!!
I feel that the most important part of your post is simply finding in one’s heart where they wish guitar to take them… and mapping out the way to get there! Congratulations on finding your way!!!

Signed,

“Endless Beginner” Tod :woozy_face:

I know this feeling and struggle with timing too thanks for sharing