Gary,
Iāve been practicing 30 minutes a day, 5-7 days per week, for almost 2 years now (following Justinās curriculum) and my chording has finally started to get solid in the last 6 months. Iām currently working through grade 3.
It seemed like it took forever to get the chords clean, then one day, after about a year, it seemed as though my fingertips finally grew āeyesā and my fretting started to become good without me having to always think about it. The two things that helped the most were:
Chord Perfect: I still do this for every new chord I learn and still have this in my practice routine. I really focus on how subtle changes to my finger angles, thumb position, and wrist angle affect my hand comfort and the ease of fretting. Once I get a āgripā that works for me, I then focus on trying to keep the strings fretting clean with the least finger & thumb pressure possible. Squeezing more just causes my hand to tire more quickly, and I was SHOCKED to realize just how little pressure is really needed to fret a string. This was really a game-changer for me!
Perfect Fast Changes: I still do this to my 3 āworstā chord changes or the chord changes I need for whatever song Iām trying to learn.
Hereās my neck width story:
I was playing an electric guitar with a common 1.673ā (42.5mm) nut width and was having so much trouble keeping adjacent fingers from grounding out strings that I searched for an electric with a āwideā neck. A long-distance friend of mine had the same guitar as mine, except his guitarās nut was 1/16ā wider. I decided Iād try his guitar the next time I visited (6 months away) and buy one like his if it was easier to play. Well, in the 6 months that I practiced until my visit, my chording became much better. When I finally tried his guitar, I struggled to play it because the strings felt like they were too far apart LOL!
I also thought I had āsoftā fingertips. Keeping my nails cut as short as possible over the last 2 years has definitely made my nails retract a bit, so I no longer feel like my nails are hitting the fretboard before the string is properly fretted. Over the last 2 years, my callouses have actually changed from small hard spots on the fingertips into an overall firm cap on each fingertip. This took about 6 months for me.
If the Gretch is easier for you to play, inspires you to play, and you can afford it, go for it! Anything you can do to make playing more fun is worth it. Just realize that as you progress, you may find a time when you wish the strings were closer together (I never thought Iād say that LOL) and go back to the Strat.
Hope this Helps,
Ed