HEC and how I am

Hi, to all. When I say that, I mean to include the whole of the Justin community. I felt I needed to post it here first … I found this community about one year or more ago, and I love it because when I found it, I was in a deep place and it pulled me out of a bad situation, I then grew to love it more and more, and indeed more. So much more that I found friends from different countries and cultures, but we all had one thing in common: the Guitar and music. I soon made many good friends, and today I still work with them, and I love every single minute of it. However, I find myself in another difficult place, but do not for one minute need to cry out because I have a good community. All I need to say is I have been missing for a couple of weeks, and I am not myself, and yeah, it is difficult, but I will be back soon, and if anybody feels they are in the same predicament, please do not hesitate to shout out for help. My name is HEC, and in one more week, I should be ok, so thank you to the Justin community. I can only post this here, but I hope it goes out to all posts. thank You HEC

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Hec, I’m not understanding everything of what you say, but I hope that all will go well for you. I’ll be here and am always glad to talk to you, my friend!
And we’ll finish that song :slight_smile:

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Take your time and most of all:
Be patient, be patient with yourself and with others.
That first thing might be the hardest thing.
ā€œGetting betterā€ isn’t a gradual, linear line that goes upward.
It is a wave that has an upward trend, a positive average.

Take care Hec!

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Glad to be part of the team/community with you

Thank you for all you’ve given and added to the group.

We are team positive,
   team growth,
       team caring

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Hope whatever it is turns out ok HEC. Life ups and downs often get in the way and I’ve been MIA quite a few times during my tenure here. The main things is that, folk are here right now if you need us and we will still be here when to bounce back, As LDV says just take your time.

Take care, stay safe.

:smiling_face_with_sunglasses:

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Sorry to hear that you are going through a tough time Hec. Just take it one day and a time and hopefully you will be out the other side soon. Take care!

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Hang in the HEC. You are a valued member of this community. In the short period of time I have been here you lear rather fast who has a finger of thing and who sort of really understands things. You are one of those people who enjoys helping others and do it because you enjoy seeing others succeed. I appreciate that from you. You have always been super supportive.

Thank you.

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Hi Hec.
I’m sure there are many quotes and many words of wisdom that could fit for whatever your current situation is and its effect on you.
Words may not be what you need.
If its the company of guitarists and musicians who alsp appreciate you and all you contribute and bring to enrich our community, then you know the community is tthere for you too.
Be well my friend.
:hugs:

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Hi Hec,
I am sorry to hear that life is hard at the moment. I hope everything improves soon.

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Most of us have been, at one point or another, through ups and downs, and very often our love for the guitar and music saved us from a serious mental depression.
I myself am now a good example of how playing guitar can give boost to strength an will to overcome the worst. As I mentioned in some of my posts, my health isn’t perfect. Now I know it isn’t good at all. I’m in the middle of thorough medical examinations, and the results aren’t encouraging at all. I still hope for better than the worst, but many people in my place would probable suffer a breakdown. I don’t give up, I play and enjoy my music and intend to do so against all odds.
Whatever doesn’t seem right in your life, don’t let it to crush you, try to pull yourself together and stand up to the challenges. It’s great that you’ve found friends here; such a community can be really something to lean on when times get rough…
Anyway, all the best HEC, we all need you here.

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Hi HEC,

Having greatly appreciated your input into this forum and especially your help when I was doing my first and only guitar build, I’m really sorry to hear that you are not yourself.

As many have said, I think most of us have some serious ups and downs, and for many of us, learning guitar and the support on this forum is important. I sure did. Almost 2 years ago, I decided to learn guitar, ordered one online, then went out for a walk and had heart failure because of a large pulmonary embolism which was due to a post-op complication. I was in intensive care for 2 days and when I got out of hospital, I found a guitar shaped box on my doorstep! So much had happened in a few days that I couldn’t even remember what it was. I opened the box, vaguely remembered ordering it, plugged it in and that was the best recovery therapy I could have possibly had - and the forum too of course. It certainly helped to take my mind off the problems.

Thanks for posting about this on the forum HEC. We are not alone and you are not alone and I know that many of the people on this forum are very supportive. I hope that you are getting the care you need, either self help or professional and PLEASE PLEASE reach out if you need anything.

I’m wishing you all the best for a swift recovery and look forward to reading your posts again very soon.

All the best, Ian

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@DeltaTyne Hello Hec,

just remember we are here for you and we wont go anywhere. :slight_smile:

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Hi Hec,
Sad to read
that you are going through a difficult period again. How nice that the guitar and this community have already helped you so much and are now helping you get through this time again. Learning to play the guitar has also been more important here than everyone around me realizes. Luckily my wife realizes that…

mending_heart

Greetings,Rogier

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Hi HEC,

so sorry to read about you facing hard times again, but on the other hand glad to read that the JG community is a little ray of light in those dark times. It’s truely a caring and supporting community and we’re glad to have you around, too. We’ll be there whenever you need us. Take your time and as other said, be patient with yourself. Take good care and get well soon! :four_leaf_clover:

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Hi Hec, I’m very sorry to read about you having difficult times again! I guess, lots of us can understand your current discomfort from own experience. You are not alone :green_heart:. Don’t lose your confidence and optimism, even, if it’s hard. Look out for those little escapes from all that causes discomfort in your daily life. Playing guitar is a great tool to help you through bad times. I’m happy for you, that you’ve found some relief whilst playing and here on the community plattform, with all it’s friendly members.
I wish you all the best, take your time and reach out for support whenever needed.
Wish you also a speedy recovery and I’m looking forward to your future contributions!

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:mending_heart: Wishing you all the best Hec Hope you are ok :hugs:

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Thank you so much, and I appreciate all your kind words. I have been coming off Meds for the last 5 weeks. This is my last week, and the hardest one, then they decided they had forgotten to do my bloods, so I have been ignoring the symptoms, thinking they were from coming down from the codeine wich is a powerful drug, they called me in and found out I was very very low on Ion and high risk of what ever else, so they gave me more Meds and it just got me down man. I didn’t know if today was yesterday or yesterday was a Beatles song, god life, but I am dealing with it thanks to you guys so thank you again HEC :sparkling_heart:

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Hi Hec!

Life is such a beautiful/terrible journey depending on whether you’re currently on a peak or down a crevasse & trying to claw your way back up… all I can say is to never stop trying, never give up & always believe in yourself! You’ll be better my friend… this Community is here for you!
Here’s a video of cheers from an American man :united_states: from Albuquerque to an Englishman :united_kingdom: from Newcastle (no Tariffs attached :rofl:) who’s always offering ā€œCheersā€ to us here…

Hope you’re back to ā€œfeeling yourselfā€ soon!!!

Tod

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I’m loving all the supportive replies. I hope it’s clear that the entire community is here for you, for whatever you need. Take your time. We’ll be here, always. You are one of my ā€œgo-to’sā€ and I appreciate every post you make. Thank you for sharing. There’s a line that goes ā€˜a problem shared is a problem lessened’. I hope that’s true for you. Take care.

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Hang on in there Hec and you’ll be fine.

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