Hello from Rem

Hi! My name’s Rem and I’m new here. Here is my story :smiley:

When I was a kid, my mom enrolled me in a music class with a choir. I was eventually expelled with the following diagnosis: “weak voice, lack of musical hearing, and unstable sense of rhythm.” And while I noodled around a little with the guitar as a kid and later with the piano as an adult, I never actually considered singing, because that was simply something I believed was not given to me. Period.

Lo and behold! A midlife crisis hit, and after 40 years of not even thinking about it, I thought to myself: “Hmm… We only live once. What’s the harm in trying?” and started to experiment with singing. And the guitar comes with singing like bread with butter, so I bought myself one six months ago. The last time I had a guitar in my hands was when I was a teen (I tried playing Gilmour’s solos on a crappy guitar that couldn’t stay in tune for more than 5 minutes). I started noodling around, trying to create a program to teach myself. And of course, Justin’s videos quickly became my go-to whenever I want to learn anything new, be it a song or a concept (he even taught me how to change strings on my guitar properly!)

Unfortunately, my brain doesn’t allow me to follow any structured path, so it’s always a mishmash of ideas, techniques, songs, etc. But I haven’t given up on the dream of working through Justin’s courses nevertheless (a man can dream, right?)

And so here I am :smiley:

It’s very hard for me to listen to myself, whether it’s my playing or, especially, my singing, but I realized that I have to do it to give myself at least some feedback. So I’ve decided to regularly post songs, even when it feels painful.

So here’s where I’m at right now: my current level of playing and singing.

Any suggestions, criticism, hints, or advice would be much welcomed and appreciated.

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Hello Rem and welcome to our Community!
You have a very beautiful voice. If I understood well you’ve started learning only 6 months ago…well your playing is really super in just 6 months…you both play and sing really well, have a gentle touch on the strings and keep good consistent time.

This is a good idea, I suggest you start your own Learning Log so that you can keep track of your progress.

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Thank you very much for your kind words.

Yeah, I started on 15th of Sep, 2025. But I played piano for several years before (mostly classical music and a little bit of jazz), so I’m not going in from scratch: I know the basics of music theory and right now gradually trying to apply this knowledge to guitar as well.

But singing - yes, started from scratch. I couldn’t sing a note, and was sure that I have no musical ear for it. But I see that I’m making a little bit of progress, which gives me hope that maybe I have a chance to become a campfire singer (my ambitions are quite low in this regard)

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Hello Rem & Welcome!!!
Very good song! Your playing was confident & well timed! Your singing was very good! I have no doubt that you are well on your way to being a really good “campfire singer”!!!
One of the things you will hear often here in the Community is to learn songs… that’s really why most of us are here, right?
So, work on expanding your repertoire while learning new skills is my $.02 !
Most importantly, HAVE FUN!!!
Good luck with the guitar Journey!!!

Tod from New Mexico

P.S. With a name like Rem, you need to learn at least one R.E.M. song!!! Justin teaches several! :rofl:

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Thanks, Tod.

Yeah, that’s true. I’ve got around 5 decently learnt songs under my belt, a bunch of not finished, and right now I’m working on another 3. Most of them are strumming accompaniment, but I’m branching off to simple fingerstyle arrangements. Just yesterday started on Wicked Game.

Funny thing: I know precisely zero songs of this band. I know it exists but never actually listened to anything they did. I must right this wrong!

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https://www.justinguitar.com/songs/r-e-m-the-one-i-love-chords-tabs-guitar-lesson-sg-140

Here’s a fairly simple one taught by Justin!
Give the lesson a view & “try it on”!

Good to hear that you’re learning songs too!!!

Tod

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@remchi, welcome to the community Rem!

You look like you will make fast progress. I like your playing and singing. I would advise that you follow the JG courses starting from grade 1. They’re well structured.
I started playing electric guitar regularly just after turning 40, and JG has been a massive help. I had played acoustic occasionally until then (and piano :slightly_smiling_face:).

Many people in this community are at different levels in their guitar journey, so don’t feel embarrassed to share your progress.

We also have OpenMics online (over Zoom). You sound like you’re ready for one. They take place every 6 weeks (more or less). The next one is this Saturday, if you’re interested. You can participate as an audience member to start with so you can get an idea of how it works. If you’d like to attend, you can register your interest here

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That’s sounds really interesting… and terrifying at the same time :laughing:

I’ll try to be on 14 as spectator.

I have another event on 15th of March - I’m going to sing and play the song I posted in front of the people in a bar. The crowd is going to be very friendly because it’s like party of music club, where people mostly know each other and all are amateurs, but still… nerve wracking :face_with_peeking_eye:

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Nice to meet you Rem cheers HEC

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Rem,
More than likely as a kid you had “a weak teacher with little ability as an educator who couldn’t teach rhythm”. Like so many of us. Great job with your posted song! Keep strumming!

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Very well done man, and welcome to the community.
That was most enjoyable.

Great clear playing, great singing; and you have very good rhythm my friend.
I also felt some strong Roy Orbison vibes coming through there in your performance.
You’re acing it for 6 months on guitar.
Looking forward to more my friend.
All the best.

Cheers, Shane

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Hi Rem,

Welcome here and I wish you a lot of fun :smiling_face_with_sunglasses:

That was a great performance…better than just good :smiling_face_with_sunglasses: :clap:

Greetings,Rogier

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Hi Rem,

For me it is a pleasure to listen to you, and I would be glad to hear more from you. Welcome to the great guitar community.
Cheers Withold

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beautiful voice and beautifully played, thanks for sharing :guitar:.

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Thanks. That’s a compliment I didn’t expect! :smiley:

Thank you for your kind words.

Ooh, I got some. I have a list of songs I want to record, but I don’t want to be spammy, so I’m gonna space them :laughing:

Thank you, really glad you liked it.

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Hi Rem, welcome to the community. Your playing and singing sounds good. The playing is amazingly good for just 6 months. I see that you are even playing an F chord, so you have the choice of a lot of songs to learn from Justin’s Song Lessons. Have fun learning songs. You can post more than one song per month in the AVOYP section if you put them in the same post.

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Welcome to the community Rem. Unless your voice changed drastically over the years, you were given a bad rap as a kid. Your voice is excellent and guitar playing solid.

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Welcome! Great choice of song - well played and sang!

Thank you for your kind words. Do I understand rules correctly? I can create post in AVOYP something like ‘Rem Plays (March, 2026)’ and post there complete songs. And for partial stuff, like licks or parts of songs I’m working on, I can create ‘Rem’s practice log’ in Learning logs section.

Thank you, it means a lot to me. But no matter what I hear other people saying to me, I’m still convinced (at least for now), that I have no abilities in this area. Maybe I should sue my choir teacher for this psychological trauma. :laughing:

Thank you! Don’t know why but I just live to sing this song… there is kinda flow in it, that just pleasant to sing.

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Yes, you can post one or more complete songs in your post in the AVOYP. You can post partial or early versions of complete songs in your learning log. You will get more responses to the posts in the AVOYP.

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