Digging this old post because I really want to emphasize how much trouble I’m having with this, and see if maybe I can get a “system” figured out where I can make progress here. I’m pretty beginner, but I’m at a level now where I want to be able to go to a local Guitar League group’s jams. They break off by ability level and I’m more or less in the neighborhood of the beginner’s group. I’m not smooth and proficient with all the chords they’re using, but I am with most.
Also, I know enough chords that I’d like to start playing more songs before moving on in the lessons I’m doing. I want to mix up my playing routine a little bit. The VAST majority of those are written up in song sheet formatting with lyrics and chords only. Shoot, I have thousands of them saved on my computer. Some individual ones sent to me by other people. But I also have a single pdf that is a huge library of them.
The big problem is that I don’t know what in the world to do with these song sheets. I’ve been learning most of my material from a combo of TAB/sheet music, so I’m essentially working to play exactly what is shown in front of me. Some of that is beyond the level of just strumming at this point. But when I’m presented with a song sheet that leaves so much to interpretation, I have no idea what in the world to do.
It’s not helped by the fact that I am not at a point where I can sing along with myself playing. I’m thinking about all the stuff I need to do with the guitar. The chords, the strum (at least getting into the neighborhood of hitting the right strings, ensuring that I’m actually hitting them in the first place and not missing them entirely, and so on), keeping track of the timing, and just getting a general feel for the groove of the song. There’s no way I can also sing along. I’ve tried.
Count me as another who has a hard time with the single-strum-per-chord thing because it’s just soooo boring.
I also have quite the frustration with “just figure it out” suggestions at my level. When I’ve brought this up to other people, this is the most common response I’m given, and I’m just not there. How do I figure it out? I’ve not encountered any lessons of any sort on how you do this. Honestly this discussion is the most detailed description I’ve seen. It’s closer to what I’m looking for, but it’s not quite there.
The biggest thing I have trouble with is when to make the noted chord change when I’m not singing, because it seems like every suggestion for how to figure out how to strum it focuses on using the lyrics to work that out. And then in a group jam situation, it’s exacerbated by the fact that it sounds like absolute chaos to me with people doing so many rather different things that don’t always sound nice together.
I’ve tried using several sources to help figure things out. Ultimate Guitar seems like it might be helpful because many songs offer strumming patterns. But in some cases, they confuse matters because the pattern is several bars long, and don’t really show where in that pattern some of those chord changes are supposed to happen (and it’s obvious that they don’t all fall at the end of the pattern).
I’m absolutely not at a point where I’m going to be downloading and editing these song sheets, but I can definitely see why you might want to do that. I’ve tried for some stuff to write down on paper what I’m trying to do and when and I just need more under my belt to be able to do that.
So…does anyone have anything else to add to this to help a beginner wrap their head around making use of these? This seems to be a great big hole in most guitar instruction I’ve tried over the years (I’ve taken private lessons, group classes, and online lessons and none have really provided a system or method for a beginner to figure it out on your own). In the private lessons and group classes I’ve taken, I may have been given these sheets, but I’ve also been told “strum it this way” with no explanation of why.