ah this topic keeps coming back
Don’t forget that the ability to learn things in a better or quicker fashion, is an ability you learn.
I can draw a little. Some said it was talent. Talent my mother has.
I can draw because I saw my mother do it, she knew how to stimulate me to draw more and she knew how to improve me.
As this stage faded, the stage of “inspiration” grew; Passion is contagious.
Subconciously you might see it as some kind of “norm” and you pick this path.
Kids can be naive but they set pretty clear paths for themselves. Observe their determination.
"I’m going to be a … or the best … the champion in … "
When you learn to progress; you enjoy the feeling of gratification.
You will feel it when learning guitar, drawing or learning to run 10 miles.
I rather believe in genetics that have a more broad and less specific impact.
When you have children, especially when you have more than one so you can compare, you might believe it even more. You notice how differently kids deal with progressing. You discover how their balance of gratification, learning, listening, frustration, pride and “limiting fear to deliver because of perfectionism” are variables in their progress and more importantly, PASSION.
I believe I was born with zero “talent” and that talent is a word made up by people who needed an excuse to compare themselves with others.
Your passion might be something else than what you’re best/good at.
My passion is to bring emotion to people, to entertain them.
I’ll never get any good at it but I just LOVE to try.
I’ll never be a remarkeable guitarist or singer either but I love the feeling it gives ME.
so yeah I’M PRETTY GOOD IN DOING WHAT I LOVE WHILE I’M NOT THAT GOOD AT IT
but everything I ever did, was based on experience.
That’s not a talent either.
enjoying what you do is one of the factors that make up a healthy psyche.
Every entertaining story has a bad joke to compensate for it
Every decent song has more than 20 butchered versions in my history.
The more you’re ok with being sucky at times, the less perfectionism will slow you down.
that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have standards and goals.
It must be a giant morale boost though, being convinced you have a talent.
but I think it’s those people who are even more prone to crippling perfectionism.
I’ve seen what it can do and it takes away a lot of fun.
Perhaps these people might have less patience with theirselves?
Having lower expectations makes the results more surprising I guess
So yeah, I’m in the "there is no talent camp"
…and you’ll have to be a very talented guy to convince me the opposite is true
Success?
A big part of Success comes when listening a lot.
To music
To yourself
To others
listen so much, that you know what is useful and what is not
What is just opinion but also with an essence.
Listen to the ingorance of others and learn to identify it.
Learn from another persons mistake.
Some will be humble and come forward with it.
Some will be in denial.
Ether way, you’ll learn from it as well.
I have no excuses.
If I worked harder; I’d probably be twice as far as I am now.
I learned most my current skill when the information age was finally peaking while the distraction age was still to be developed. And still I’m where I am
I have the means to buy the gear I need and I have most of what I want .
I was never rich but at the same time I’ve always been rich.
I feel richer every time I learn something new.
I have nobody to blame when I slack and I’ve earned enough support to have people with expectations that meet a certain standard.
“Luck” is another thing you can blame and I agree, you need some. But the more you do yourself, the less “luck” you need.
True, I had to work to achieve that but in my own perspective I’m an astronaut on the moon gazing at the stars. Most of the work was play
When you’re passionate, most of it will remain play
Passion is the closest thing to success.
Being passionate about something already is a certain form of success.
It means that you bonded with something and created a system that creates energy while you put energy in it. It’s 100% NO guarantee but it’s closer to the moon that the “Talent” label that keeps your feet on the ground.
I used to discuss what talent is but I gave up on that
At a certain moment a few people said “I am talented”.
I started playing for real 12 years ago on this very site.
I never felt talented. I was laughed at when I brought a guitar home I borrowed from a friend.
I paid much attention to the layering. Justin’s program does that.
Build layer over layer.
The wider the bottom layer, the more space you have to build upon.
Don’t waste your time laying an endless bottom layer. A good pyramid will do
No matter where you are; you ALWAYS have a better view than people on the ground!
I feel almost completely happy with this.
That is my biggest success
Feeling 100% satisfied would mean I have no passion